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30 Day Play

At the beginning of a relationship, we are flooded with feel good brain chemicals that keep the creative juices flowing. As we settle in, it's easy to get complacent. If you are wanting some ideas on how to light a little spark in your relationship consider the 30 Day Play, or just skim the blog for random date night ideas. Use it with your own style to do your part to put fuel on your fire.

Day 1: Kickstart Your Connection

Activity: Give the gift of your presence. Take 15 minutes to have a meaningful conversation with your partner. Share your thoughts, dreams, and aspirations for the future. Remember to actively listen and show genuine interest in what your partner has to say.

Day 2: Fun and Games Activity:

Plan a game night with your partner. Whether it's board games, card games, or video games, the goal is to have a blast together and enjoy each other's company.

Day 3: Love Letters Activity:

 Write a heartfelt love letter to your partner expressing your appreciation and admiration for them. Get creative and pour your heart out on paper or be the goofy dork they adore, just show up.

Day 4: Cook Together

Activity: Choose a recipe or invent something. Embrace the joy of teamwork in the kitchen and savor the fruits of your labor over a romantic dinner.

Day 5: Outdoor Adventure Activity:

Take a nature walk with your partner. Enjoy the fresh air, scenic views, and each other's company as you explore the great outdoors together.

Day 6: Movie Night Activity:

Have a cozy movie night at home with your partner. Pick a movie that you both love or explore new genres together. Don't forget the popcorn!

Day 7: Dance Party Activity:

Turn up the music and have a spontaneous dance party with your partner. Let loose, bust out your best dance moves, and have a blast grooving together.

Day 8: Express Gratitude

Activity : Take turns expressing gratitude for each other. Share three things you appreciate about your partner and why they mean so much to you. You might enjoy it so much you do this weekly or nightly.

Day 9: Memory Lane Activity:

Look through old photo albums or watch home videos together. Reminisce about your favorite memories as a couple and cherish the moments that have brought you closer together.

Day 10: DIY Project Activity:

Choose a DIY project to tackle together. Whether it's painting a room, building a piece of furniture, or crafting something unique, embrace the opportunity to create together.

Day 11: Spa Day Activity:

Create a spa-like atmosphere at home and pamper each other with massages, facials, and relaxation techniques. Unwind and indulge in some much-needed self-care together.

Day 12: Bucket List

Activity: Create a bucket list of activities you want to experience together as a couple. Dream big and make plans to check off each item on your list together.

Day 13: Adventure Seekers Activity:

Plan a fun outdoor adventure with your partner. Whether it's rock climbing, kayaking, or zip-lining, embrace the thrill of new experiences together.

Day 14: Poetry Night Activity:

Write and share poems with your partner. Get creative and express your feelings through poetry, whether it's silly, romantic, or heartfelt. Feels too risky? Print something you find and read it to them from your heart.

Day 15: Cook Together Activity:

Repeat Day 4's activity or try a new recipe together. Enjoy the process of cooking as a team and this time, spice it up.

Day 16: Stargazing Activity:

Find a cozy spot outdoors and stargaze with your partner. Marvel at the beauty of the night sky and enjoy the peace and tranquility of being together under the stars.

Day 17: Vision Board Activity:

Create a vision board together, outlining your goals and aspirations as a couple. Visualize your dreams and aspirations for the future and work together to make them a reality.

Day 18: Game Night Activity:

Repeat Day 2's activity or try a new game together. Embrace the spirit of friendly competition and enjoy some quality time together.

Day 19: Love Languages Activity:

Take the love languages quiz together and discuss your results. Learn more about each other's love languages and how you can better express love and appreciation for each other.

Day 20: Outdoor Picnic Activity:

Plan a romantic picnic outdoors with your partner. Pack your favorite snacks, sandwiches, and drinks, and enjoy a leisurely afternoon together in nature.

Day 21: Gratitude Jar Activity:

Create a gratitude jar together and write down things you're grateful for about each other. Fill the jar with notes of appreciation and read them together whenever you need a reminder of the love and positivity in your relationship.

Day 22: Comedy Night Activity:

Watch a comedy show or stand-up special together and enjoy some laughs with your partner. Laughter is the best medicine, and sharing funny moments can bring you closer together.

Day 23: Adventure Seekers Activity:

Repeat Day 13's activity or try a new outdoor adventure together. Embrace the thrill of new experiences and create lasting memories as a couple.

Day 24: Game Night Activity: Repeat Day 18's activity or try a new game together. Enjoy some friendly competition and quality time together.

Day 25: Cook Together Activity:

Repeat Day 15's activity or try a new recipe together. Cooking together can be a fun and rewarding experience that strengthens your bond as a couple.

Day 26: Dance Party Activity:

Repeat Day 7's activity or have another spontaneous dance party with your partner. Let loose and this time, be flirty.

Day 27: Mini Vision Board Activity:

Reflect on your goals and aspirations as a couple. This time, look at what actions you can take that are at your fingertips. Even the smallest gesture like a vacation coin jar, or posting maps moves you in the direction of your shared dreams.

Day 28: Love Languages Activity:

Take what you learned in the Love Languages activity and explore new ways to express love and appreciation for each other based on your love languages.

Day 29: Comedy Night  Activity:

Try another comedy show or stand-up special together. You can't have too much laughter and quality time with your partner.

Day 30: Celebration Activity:

Celebrate your journey together with a special date night or activity of your choice. Reflect on the past 30 days and the memories you've created as a couple. Here's to many more adventures together!

Cheers to love, laughter, and happily ever after!


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